I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. I do not threaten lightly. I married a recent convert girl в she may as well have been a nonmember в and less than a year later we got an annulment. Can you live your whole life with a husband you doesnt or never will believe in the mormon church. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. Or the links, in that first vision one. But I ultimately leave it to him most times. I wish I had not ignored the signs whiles we dated but now I am out of energy. It is crucial to recognize that Mormonism has elements of belief, practice, and custom that work to make interfaith marriages especially difficult and inconvenient for both spouses.
Do what feels right. What do you occupy your time with. If she says yes.
He sees all families being able to stay together. We are a welcoming community. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays. I am getting increasingly more resentful of the times I think he can choose us instead of residency. I do not see this going well. The argument progressed to I do not feel comfortable moving with you unless there is some sort of "promise.
If she says yes. However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. I let things slide often not thinking it is worth a battle. No easy answers here.