Also making sure that the woman is comfortable both physically and emotionally. Let her lie on her back, tell her how beautiful and hot her pussy is. Spend time kissing her and looking her in the eyes before going down. I like a guy to caress my thighs, reach down to gently spread my knees apart further very erotic , occasionally reach up to touch and squeeze my breasts. Kiss her, slowly, then firmly—but like you have all the time in the world. Trail kisses from her mouth along her jaw to her ear, maybe take her earlobe in between your teeth. Make your way along her neck, kissing and licking at the sensitive spots—behind her ear, her pulse points, in between her collarbones. Move down slowly, take your time at her breasts, suck at her nipples, touch and caress her boobs. Detour back up to her lips and kiss her; you want to get her aroused before you even get anywhere close to her lower lips. Moving back down, kiss down her stomach, sucking under her navel, maybe kissing along the edge of her underwear.


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Our Pussy Eating Tricks are Powerful… But You Also Have to Do the Work
We all get something out of the pleasure we manage to offer our partners. Women love when a man knows how to lick up their pussy the right way, just as much as men love to get a good blowjob. The reason for this is not that women want sex less, but simply that they have a more complex relationship to it, both for physical and cultural reasons. The article on 8 types of female orgasms might help you form the better picture about it. But for the other part, there are some women who have never felt comfortable with the general aspect of their vulva and their vagina, since our society tends to put a lot of negative judgments around female sexuality. She might need a really loving and reassuring attitude from your part, to trust that she can open with you about that part of her body that makes her feel so insecure. Seduce her whole body first, with feather-like caresses both from your hands and your lips.
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Cunninlingus aka eating pussy, is one of the best ways to give pleasure to a vulva. It can also be one of the more intimidating sex acts. The clitoris is analogous to the penis. Like the penis, the clitoris is made up of erectile tissue that engorges with blood when aroused. The clitoral glans, which is analogous to the head of the penis, is the only part of the clitoris that is visible from the outside of the body. The rest of the clitoris is buried inside the vulva, and the engorgement of the internal clitoral structure is what causes the vulva to puff and flush during arousal. The internal clitoral structure feels pleasure, and one of the best ways to stimulate this part of the clitoris is with firm, thoughtful pressure.
Oral sex on someone with a vulva is one of the most popular sexual activities out there—and for good reason! Cunnilingus the technical name for eating pussy stimulates the clitoris directly. You can start up by the belly button or hips and make a trail of kisses over the pubic mound, or start down by the knees and work your way up to the inner thighs. Everyone likes a different pressure on their clit and around their vulva. Clits are so sensitive that less pressure may actually feel more intense, while too much pressure can become uncomfortable. Experiment with different rhythms to find out what your partner likes. Try different speeds, and then experiment with mixing them up. Do they like a consistent rhythm? Do they like pauses? For many people teasing feels great at the beginning, but as they get closer to orgasm they need a steadier rhythm to get there.